By Athlete 
Psychiatrist Nguyen Hong Bach, Center – Clinical Psychology Dr MPIt is said that when parents disagree in front of their children, it will affect the child’s psychology.
Doctor Bach once treated a 16-year-old male student whose parents often argued, leading to long-term brain suppression.
When the male student came to take the exam, he said he did not like being a man because he was afraid of the responsibilities he would have to bear.
Through conversation, the male student also revealed to the doctor that at home, his father was very gentle and worked very hard, while his mother only cared about beauty and going out.
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Dr. Bach believes that male students only suffer from exogenous gender disorders due to influences from their living environment.
After a period of psychological intervention, the male students have a better understanding of gender issues.
Currently, everything is normal with the male student and he has gone to study abroad.
The impact of parental arguments
Dr. Bach believes that it is very bad for parents to argue in front of their children.
Especially for children aged 12 – 16 years old, this is the age when their character, personality and lifestyle are forming.
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According to doctors, children affected by their parents’ behavior often show 5 specific symptoms:
– First, children may show signs of avoidance.
– Second, the child develops negative resistance due to losing trust in his parents.
– Third, children shape their lives according to the image of their parents.
– Fourth, children can suffer from emotional disorders when they witness their parents’ inappropriate behaviors.
—Fifth, some children lose faith in their family and themselves.
Dr. Bach believes that children living in harmonious families will have good energy.
On the contrary, when children live in a family with discordant parents.
Psychologists say that when parents have conflicts in life, they should sit down, talk kindly and not argue or quarrel in front of their children, because this will create a bad image in the children’s eyes.